Hello TP and all you wonderful people out there who are doing one of the hardest jobs in the world, caring for a loved one with dementia!
I don't know where to start really.
My Mam has Alzheimer's, we don't know how far into this horrendous disease she is, we don't even know when she was really diagnosed, as my parents did a great job of hiding this from the family.
Mam has been through the process of scans, tests etc and we are now awaiting a Cardiologist's report so we know which drug Mam can go on.
My Dad (bless him) is doing the very best he can, but he is really struggling and point blank refuses any help.
I have suggested to my Dad that they move closer to us and we will be able to help out as often as he/Mam needs us. Dad is open to this, but my Mam doesn't want to leave her home.
There is so much more to say, but I will just add the following for now.
HELP!!
How can we get everything that my Mam and Dad need organised, coordinated and put into place, when they are adamant they don't need help?
How do you get someone to move, when they don't want to?
Thank you so much for reading this, I actually feel a bit better for just typing the above. I look forward to all replies.
I don't know where to start really.
My Mam has Alzheimer's, we don't know how far into this horrendous disease she is, we don't even know when she was really diagnosed, as my parents did a great job of hiding this from the family.
Mam has been through the process of scans, tests etc and we are now awaiting a Cardiologist's report so we know which drug Mam can go on.
My Dad (bless him) is doing the very best he can, but he is really struggling and point blank refuses any help.
I have suggested to my Dad that they move closer to us and we will be able to help out as often as he/Mam needs us. Dad is open to this, but my Mam doesn't want to leave her home.
There is so much more to say, but I will just add the following for now.
HELP!!
How can we get everything that my Mam and Dad need organised, coordinated and put into place, when they are adamant they don't need help?
How do you get someone to move, when they don't want to?
Thank you so much for reading this, I actually feel a bit better for just typing the above. I look forward to all replies.
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