My husband is nearing the end of his life and I’m struggling with conflicting feelings. I’ve always thought it would be a grea relief when he passes away, as his quality of life has been non-existent for many months, but now the end is closer I’m worried that I’m going to miss my visits to him terribly, seemingly pointless though they are. He is immobile and has not communicated in any way for about 9 months, but can I be sure he has no quality of life? What if he’s actually quite content in bed? He’s well looked after, warm, comfortable and fed so perhaps he is quite ok to carry on living like this. I’m so muddled and sad.