My poor dad has been in hospital since New Year’s Day. Before he went in , the carehome had mentioned a couple of times about finding him somewhere else to go,as he was having anger problems.We had a meeting with SW before Christmas and it was decided to see how it goes and leave it to the home to decide when they couldn’t manage him. He then got a chest infection and because he has gone into hospital,they are stalling having him back. He’s had some anger issues while in hospital and he’s been sedated twice ( not good as his breathing slowed down and he couldn’t even feed himself).Hes been well enough for 8 days to go home.For over a week they wouldn’t even assess him and after some phone calls from the dementia cordinater at the hospital and her ringing Social services they eventually assessed him yesterday, under duress. They have now said they will give their decision today. I’m absolutely fuming .Poor dad hasn’t a clue what’s going on.Hes on a non dementia ward with really sick people and has to just sit there all day. I can only go every other day as it’s 1 1/2 hours on a bus.The nurses aren’t dad sitters. I’ve lost confidence in the management ( can’t fault the carers) as they do not have dads best interest in mind. I haven’t been to the home since dad’s hospital admission because I am so cross and if they say he can go back, it might make it worse. I suppose we will just have to see what the decision is today but even if he did go back , it looks like dad will have to move. Sorry for the rant but I really needed to let of steam and I value your opinions with what you think.