Hello there, my father is not settling in a care home. He has vascular dementia and we managed at home with him for as long as we could. He went in a dementia residential home for respite and unfortunately fell and broke his hip. After a 5 week stay in hospital and a hip replacement he went into a nursing home. He has been there for 9 weeks and has not settled. He constantly tries to get out and wants to leave and go home. He is now presenting with challenging behaviour and the home say he is unsuitably placed. I just don't think he will settle in any home.
He is now awaiting an assessment to go to an EMI home which is like a hotel. It is a dementia village and looks great and is at the moment ticking all boxes but I'm just nervous about the move.
My question is do I risk another move to the above home or do I try live in carers. My Dad's home isn't really fit for live in carers and would need modernising/decorating and adapting. Has anyone any experience of live in carers?
I'm just wondering if this would be better for my Dad. I must add that when my Dad was at home he was always asking to go home to his child hood home. This was a big concern as he would wander out.
Thank you.
He is now awaiting an assessment to go to an EMI home which is like a hotel. It is a dementia village and looks great and is at the moment ticking all boxes but I'm just nervous about the move.
My question is do I risk another move to the above home or do I try live in carers. My Dad's home isn't really fit for live in carers and would need modernising/decorating and adapting. Has anyone any experience of live in carers?
I'm just wondering if this would be better for my Dad. I must add that when my Dad was at home he was always asking to go home to his child hood home. This was a big concern as he would wander out.
Thank you.