My husband went into a care home October 2023.
He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s in 2018. He was showing symptoms years before that.
His dementia has progressed rapidly since he went it.
There’s been so many issues since entering the home. Refusing personal care, pulling residents shoes off them,in and out of residents rooms. So many other things as well.
They cannot manage him in the home anymore. He has to go into nursing care.
I felt guilty at the start of him going in,now the guilt is even worse. Could I have managed him at home for longer?
I’m constantly crying.
I’m still waiting for a financial assessment. Worrying myself silly about that.
I’m usually such an upbeat person. I keep thinking I can’t let it take me as well but it’s going that way.
Rushing from the home 10 weeks ago I fell and fractured my hip so I’m also recovering from a full hip replacement.
How do you all manage the overwhelming guilt?
I know he would want me to take care of myself but I’m still struggling to get through this awful time.
He was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s in 2018. He was showing symptoms years before that.
His dementia has progressed rapidly since he went it.
There’s been so many issues since entering the home. Refusing personal care, pulling residents shoes off them,in and out of residents rooms. So many other things as well.
They cannot manage him in the home anymore. He has to go into nursing care.
I felt guilty at the start of him going in,now the guilt is even worse. Could I have managed him at home for longer?
I’m constantly crying.
I’m still waiting for a financial assessment. Worrying myself silly about that.
I’m usually such an upbeat person. I keep thinking I can’t let it take me as well but it’s going that way.
Rushing from the home 10 weeks ago I fell and fractured my hip so I’m also recovering from a full hip replacement.
How do you all manage the overwhelming guilt?
I know he would want me to take care of myself but I’m still struggling to get through this awful time.