My Mum has been in her care home for 2 years, and we have bern working with the mental health team about her hallucinations and general distress.
This now seems to be much better following changes to her medication, but has given Mum a need to be 'on the go' quite a bit. She normally stays in her room as she finds the communal areas too noisy and distressing, but has recently been found in the lift, walking up stairs (not steady enough on her feet to do this) and she does get aggressive and agitated particularly in the evenings. She sleeps well during the night.
The home have now said they can't cope with her and cannot keep her safe and so we need to fund her somewhere else to live or she needs 1:1 support ehich is obviously going to cost us a fortune as she is self funded.
We had a look at several care homes this weekend and out of 8 we visited we only liked one that had current availibility. They said they would do an assessment but I have worries if they say they cannot cope.
(Some of the homes we looked at were disgusting and should not even be allowed to operate in my opinion.)
Not even sure how we source 1:1 care for the daytime for Mum.
Pinning all my hopes on this new home, but don't really know what we can do if they say no.
Any help would be much appreciated
This now seems to be much better following changes to her medication, but has given Mum a need to be 'on the go' quite a bit. She normally stays in her room as she finds the communal areas too noisy and distressing, but has recently been found in the lift, walking up stairs (not steady enough on her feet to do this) and she does get aggressive and agitated particularly in the evenings. She sleeps well during the night.
The home have now said they can't cope with her and cannot keep her safe and so we need to fund her somewhere else to live or she needs 1:1 support ehich is obviously going to cost us a fortune as she is self funded.
We had a look at several care homes this weekend and out of 8 we visited we only liked one that had current availibility. They said they would do an assessment but I have worries if they say they cannot cope.
(Some of the homes we looked at were disgusting and should not even be allowed to operate in my opinion.)
Not even sure how we source 1:1 care for the daytime for Mum.
Pinning all my hopes on this new home, but don't really know what we can do if they say no.
Any help would be much appreciated
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