I tend to agree with Cragmaid, the more you do, the more SS will let you do.
My mother always used to say 'my daughter will do it'. even when I was on my knees. But as everyone else has said, carers are constantly worried about keeping their people safe.
Could you speak to the memory nurse and ask her to clarify exactly what she means? Maybe she can see the caring is getting very hard for you, and this is her way of trying to help?
Anyway, she needs to make herself clearer, and maybe you could sneek in some help for your parents before it really does get too much.
My mother always used to say 'my daughter will do it'. even when I was on my knees. But as everyone else has said, carers are constantly worried about keeping their people safe.
Could you speak to the memory nurse and ask her to clarify exactly what she means? Maybe she can see the caring is getting very hard for you, and this is her way of trying to help?
Anyway, she needs to make herself clearer, and maybe you could sneek in some help for your parents before it really does get too much.