Hello, my husband and I are in our 30s and have two small children under the age of 3. My FIL has mild dementia and loves currently nearby with my MIL who is his main carer and still very capable. They in fact look after our 2 year old 3 days a week currently whilst I work (FIL obviously not providing care but we actually find whilst he cannot cope with adult conversation he interacts with our toddler well as it involves no-pressure and he doesn't have to be concerned he's not saying the right thing). Overall being around the children appears to be a good thing for my FIL. Recently however we have discussed the option of selling both properties and buying a larger house with an annex together. The idea being this would assist three fold with care for my FIL (and respite for my MIL), financially only needing to pay for upkeep of one property, and also easier child care / pick up when our toddler goes to school etc. My MIL is onboard with the idea, we already spent alot of our time round at their house in any event and given my in-laws are in their mid 70s-80s and my husband is the only child realistically who will be in a position to provide care (his brother lives 1.5 hours away) it seems buying together will future proof any care needs my MIL may also need as she gets older. At this stage we are trying to research all the advice and we need to obtain etc and I found this forum. Wonder if anyone has already done this in similar circumstances and can give me any advice. At present in-laws are mortgage free and hold as tenants in common to protect MILs share from care fees. We have a mortgage and would need to obtain a mortgage for any future property. Am vaguely aware of deprivation of assets issue. We have POA for both in-laws. I would say now my FIL would not be considered to have capacity. Thanks in advance