Feeling utterly guilty and sad this morning. To-day is OH`s landmark 80th birthday, and I haven`t got him anything ( except a large box of chocolates which he loves ) and a card. He no longer has any interests ( he was once an ardent philatelist ), and he never wants to go anywhere ( has difficulty walking far for long due to emphysema). His 3 daughters are coming to see him on Saturday (they live over 100 miles away), but no other relatives of his bother to contact us now. He has only had 2 other birthday cards. We always celebrated birthdays by going somewhere, doing something and buying each other something special, but now I just can not think what we can do or what else I can get him. Just wish I had a magic wand which I could wave to make his dementia disappear!