Hi, I dip in and out of the forum but I’m finding Mum’s behaviour really difficult to deal with. She was admitted to hospital 10 weeks ago after a fall in her flat. She’s since had various infections including UTI, double pneumonia and Covid. She’s getting to a stage where she would be deemed medically fit but her dementia is so much worse than prior to hospital admission. She is now doubly incontinent, has moisture lesions due to this. She is also immobile and is nowhere near as communicative as she was before.
I realise that she’s presenting as late stage dementia. We’re in hospital every day to help her eat her tea. I’ve come in today and every time she opens her bowels she is putting her hands into her pad and scooping up the excrement and throwing it across the room. This has really shocked me today although I know behaviour can be bizarre with dementia. I just need to vent. I can cope with seeing my once very ‘proper’ Mum being so undignified.
I realise that she’s presenting as late stage dementia. We’re in hospital every day to help her eat her tea. I’ve come in today and every time she opens her bowels she is putting her hands into her pad and scooping up the excrement and throwing it across the room. This has really shocked me today although I know behaviour can be bizarre with dementia. I just need to vent. I can cope with seeing my once very ‘proper’ Mum being so undignified.