My Mum cannot remember anything me or my brother tell her, I'm desperate to get her to the doctors but she said we'll have to drag her. she wont go for a check up because "there is nothing wrong". Me and my brother went to see her last night to try and persuade her to visit her GP and after going round in circles so many times I began to get dizzy. my mum is accusing me of letting myself in to her house and going through her things, bank statements and personal papers and things like that. The first time she said it I was stuck at home after major surgery on my wrist after a bad fall so I couldn't possibly have been in. we asked her last night why and when she thought I was going in and she just kept saying that I knew things that I couldn't know. Such as her sending a large amount of money to a younger man she met a couple of years ago. They stayed in touch via the phone and he has since disappeared after having the money. She doesn't remember telling me or my brother about this so she just thinks I've been snooping. Last night we went through that scenario 7 times in 2 hours starting with the same questions and answers every time and each time its like the first time its been mentioned. I now have to make an appointment because she is telling anyone who will listen about me letting myself in to her house. I have no experience in this and have no idea how to proceed. I want to support her but I'm being pushed away every time I see her or speak to her.