I realy expected to be able to cope with my husbands alzheimers on my own , but yesterday I had to admit I cannot and rang the doctor and asked for help he gave me social services to ring and now awaiting appointment for some help, don't know what to expect but just somebody to talk to will do, the turning point was when he asked who I was and what I was doing in his house, we have been married 51years and this realy hurt, today he thinks I am his sister, don't no who I will be tomorrow, sorry to go on but had to tell somebody .