4 years ago my mother was assessed for attendance allowance. My brother was at the assessment and later told me that the official had told him that both aa and Mam's pension should be paid into an account that also had his name on it as she had dementia. Mam has since died and as administrator of her estate, I have discovered lots of things.
Nobody held POA for Mam and my brother kept putting off applying to the COP as I felt that we should make a joint application because Mam suffered from paranoia. She went into a care home in January of this year. By this point she could barely string a sentence together.
Since her death, I discovered that my brother also had internet access to her main accounts. Mam had "gifted" him £6000 in Oct of last year and virtually emptied one of her ISAs by doing so. In May of the same year, she had £5,600 in her current account. £5,0000 of this was "gifted" to my brother. In Dec that year Mam had £2,200 in the same account and again gifted him £2,000, leaving her with £200 for ovr the holidays.
I have also found that the account that had her state benefits going into it was soley in my brother's name. This account has numerous monies going out of it for internet gambling, porn and holidays. I did a spreadsheet to calculate the difference between the money coming into it for mam and the money going out that was spent on her. £49,000 went in via pensions and aa and £19,000 went out on payments of bills etc. There is £20 left in the account.
Is there anything I can do about this? I am absolutely livid that my brother would take advantage of his ill mother like this. Surely the DWP should keep an eye on accounts that they have nominated an appointee for