Hi everyone
I recently posted about waiting for tests results for my mum. Thank you so much for the help and advice.
We finally got the results yesterday and as we thought mum has been diagnosed with early onset alzheimers. They also mentioned something about vascular dementia but because they think tis mainly Alzheimers they are going to treat for that and make a care plan up. Although we kind of knew what the result was going to be it was a massive blow. We are going to be given lots of reading and stuff in next few weeks. I think the most shocking part was that mum asked straight out what the life exspentancy was and if she would die from this. (I dont think she realised that its not curable) They said she will probably deteriate over the next coming 10 years but its really hard to say. I don't really know how to feel or what to expect... can I expect to see this take over fast? or will it really be slowly over years and year?
Mum is not int he best of health anyway she has diabetes and heart problems so this is not really in her favour. I guess I just feel pretty alone and scared at the min as I am sure my mum does to. Thats why Im here I guess as Im hoping for I dont know really support I guess. I have amazing friends and finace but I don't want to constantly bug them. I feel pretty angry right now. My dad was taken away from us when I was 16 so I feel angry that now this is happening to my mum. She has a partner and other children but I will end up being the main carer. They gave me booklets on this yesterday and it feels awfully overwhelming. especially as right now mum can do pretty much everything herself still.
sorry for ramberling xx
I recently posted about waiting for tests results for my mum. Thank you so much for the help and advice.
We finally got the results yesterday and as we thought mum has been diagnosed with early onset alzheimers. They also mentioned something about vascular dementia but because they think tis mainly Alzheimers they are going to treat for that and make a care plan up. Although we kind of knew what the result was going to be it was a massive blow. We are going to be given lots of reading and stuff in next few weeks. I think the most shocking part was that mum asked straight out what the life exspentancy was and if she would die from this. (I dont think she realised that its not curable) They said she will probably deteriate over the next coming 10 years but its really hard to say. I don't really know how to feel or what to expect... can I expect to see this take over fast? or will it really be slowly over years and year?
Mum is not int he best of health anyway she has diabetes and heart problems so this is not really in her favour. I guess I just feel pretty alone and scared at the min as I am sure my mum does to. Thats why Im here I guess as Im hoping for I dont know really support I guess. I have amazing friends and finace but I don't want to constantly bug them. I feel pretty angry right now. My dad was taken away from us when I was 16 so I feel angry that now this is happening to my mum. She has a partner and other children but I will end up being the main carer. They gave me booklets on this yesterday and it feels awfully overwhelming. especially as right now mum can do pretty much everything herself still.
sorry for ramberling xx