Every now and again while in rare lucid moments my mum says she would love to meet up and talk to other Dementia sufferers.
What is the best way for her to do this? I have thought about Dementia Cafes ...do these work like this or are they mainly for carers.
Mum has never been sociable, as I mentioned in a previous post, and would literally sometimes run away from social situations before the Dementia but now she's saying this.
She is also constantly saying that she is lonely, even though she has lived across the road from me and my husband and her two grandchildren for 20years and was independent to the point of not even seeing her grandchildren (my kids) more than a couple of times a year despite always of course being welcome to come over to us anytime and me sending them over to see her over the years and she saying hello and goodbye almost in the same breath LOL
Now she says she's lonely and my adult children hardly know her, in fact sadly, although they try to help her, they are now even a bit scared of her with the things she says in her dementia moments. I'm sure things could be different if she had been a caring Granny pre-dementia.
Is it that all Dementia sufferers say they are lonely no matter if they have family nearby or Is it just the state of mind being empty that feels like loneliness? It does upset me when she says this, as my husband or I are there with for her at least 3 times a day. We take her to appointments etc and she pops over to us whenever she wants for a cup of tea.
Anyway has anyone any advice on Dementia cafes or similar type places or clubs? Do they help?
Thanks in advance.
What is the best way for her to do this? I have thought about Dementia Cafes ...do these work like this or are they mainly for carers.
Mum has never been sociable, as I mentioned in a previous post, and would literally sometimes run away from social situations before the Dementia but now she's saying this.
She is also constantly saying that she is lonely, even though she has lived across the road from me and my husband and her two grandchildren for 20years and was independent to the point of not even seeing her grandchildren (my kids) more than a couple of times a year despite always of course being welcome to come over to us anytime and me sending them over to see her over the years and she saying hello and goodbye almost in the same breath LOL
Now she says she's lonely and my adult children hardly know her, in fact sadly, although they try to help her, they are now even a bit scared of her with the things she says in her dementia moments. I'm sure things could be different if she had been a caring Granny pre-dementia.
Is it that all Dementia sufferers say they are lonely no matter if they have family nearby or Is it just the state of mind being empty that feels like loneliness? It does upset me when she says this, as my husband or I are there with for her at least 3 times a day. We take her to appointments etc and she pops over to us whenever she wants for a cup of tea.
Anyway has anyone any advice on Dementia cafes or similar type places or clubs? Do they help?
Thanks in advance.