I am feeling so depressed, feel my hubby is going downhill rapidly, this last week he seems to have lost all his strength, got stuck in the bath, and it took all of my efforts to get him out; I usually hand his clothes to him and he is able,just about, to put them on, however , this week he has just stood there. He can no longer shave, and I am really making a bad job of it which makes him angry He is now relying on me to walk him from room to room not knowing which is which, again getting agitated by the second. He is dreadfully slow walking, and his eating habits are getting worse.
The mh team have applied for "continuing health care, " and I have been looking at NH
however none have been able to help me due to his behaviour problems. The concensus is that he needs one to one and 24 hr care. Who will give him this !!! It has been suggested that I look out of the area, which I don't mind as long as it is within reasonable distance. I have come to the conclusion that because he is mobile we have a problem. Someone even suggested that he went on a drug plan ? to make him easier to handle. He is not violent to people, but just wants to be out all the time, and tries to leave the home, when he is in respite,
I am feeling very sorry for myself, and cant get my head around things. Feel as though from morning to night there is nothing in my life other than this, and I too am getting forgetful. On good days (very rare) I want him to stay home and dread the thought of him going , it seems so final. On the other hand I should be thinking of what is right for him. If we cannot find a nh to take him, I shall have to continue as best I can.
. I am so very stressed out and have a mouthful of ulcers, which the gp says is caused by stress, and nothing seems to help.
Sorry about this, had to let off some steam as I am sitting here alone as usual ,hubby was in bed at 7 p.m.
Should go to bed myself now I suppose. He will no doubt be up in the night and come 5 a.m. he is ready for breakfast etc.,
Oh dear, I promised myself I wouldn't do this, we all have our own troubles don't we, sorry,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
The mh team have applied for "continuing health care, " and I have been looking at NH
however none have been able to help me due to his behaviour problems. The concensus is that he needs one to one and 24 hr care. Who will give him this !!! It has been suggested that I look out of the area, which I don't mind as long as it is within reasonable distance. I have come to the conclusion that because he is mobile we have a problem. Someone even suggested that he went on a drug plan ? to make him easier to handle. He is not violent to people, but just wants to be out all the time, and tries to leave the home, when he is in respite,
I am feeling very sorry for myself, and cant get my head around things. Feel as though from morning to night there is nothing in my life other than this, and I too am getting forgetful. On good days (very rare) I want him to stay home and dread the thought of him going , it seems so final. On the other hand I should be thinking of what is right for him. If we cannot find a nh to take him, I shall have to continue as best I can.
. I am so very stressed out and have a mouthful of ulcers, which the gp says is caused by stress, and nothing seems to help.
Sorry about this, had to let off some steam as I am sitting here alone as usual ,hubby was in bed at 7 p.m.
Should go to bed myself now I suppose. He will no doubt be up in the night and come 5 a.m. he is ready for breakfast etc.,
Oh dear, I promised myself I wouldn't do this, we all have our own troubles don't we, sorry,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,