Hello
@Ann Fitz . I am sorry to hear of your husband’s dementia and that it is getting progressively worse, with deteriorating behaviours. I note the timing of your posting, and it is in the darkest hours we reach our lowest depths. Perhaps you can tell us a little more about your circumstances so we can offer more detailed help. For example, which country are you based in, and have you and your husband been assessed by social services, or receiving any support from them or family?
Until then, I offer you my best wishes and to let you know that you are not alone and we are here to help and support you in this time of need.