Today I found myself in a very uncomfortable place. My husband is in a care home and as yet hasn't settled very well but it's early days. I have family coming for Christmas to stay, and because of that wanted to reorganise the bed configuration in my house. A male friend , husband of one Of one of my friends, volunteered to help me with this. He said he was bringing his wife with him. However he turned up alone. !! After sorting out the beds it all went very scary when he said goodbye. He tried to kiss me in a very intimate manner and followed it up by saying he has been in love with me for years. I was lost for words. I was shocked that an old friend would take such liberties with me in my own home where I have lived since 1980 with my husband who I love dearly. My husband may have Dementia but I still love him and would never betray him. I feel really upset by this incident and don't want to have thus man in my home again even with his wife. He is supposed to be a friend of my husband as well which makes it all so much worse. What is the best way to deal with this. ?