I have been concerned about mum for a number of years. Family members and friends of hers have voiced concerns. Mum is dutch and it is becoming more noticeable that she struggles to find the right words. But she has lived in the uk far longer than the netherlands and her english is perfect.
In summary
- she forgot my wedding day. Where we were, who went, how many guests. It was a covid wedding so very different and stand out. My parents have since said well they didnt have much input to the wedding and mum was focused on talking so wasnt taking in details…. I think this is a rubbish excuse.
- couldnt remember whether she had been to my cousins wedding two weeks after it had happened.
- laughs off a lot of things she forgets, cant follow in conversation. She also needs a hearing test.
- repeats stories the same day or a few days later.
- finds cooking and making drinks hard to stick with. Actually doesnt really cook.
- cries a lot more than usual and is quicker to anger.
She has had two memory tests with her doctor and both times she has scored 27/30 so the doctor has said she’s fine.
I cant shake my gut and what others are saying to me. But dad says shes fine and makes excuses and so does the doctor.
I dont know what to do. I feel like im going mad and I dont was to upset her.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation?
In summary
- she forgot my wedding day. Where we were, who went, how many guests. It was a covid wedding so very different and stand out. My parents have since said well they didnt have much input to the wedding and mum was focused on talking so wasnt taking in details…. I think this is a rubbish excuse.
- couldnt remember whether she had been to my cousins wedding two weeks after it had happened.
- laughs off a lot of things she forgets, cant follow in conversation. She also needs a hearing test.
- repeats stories the same day or a few days later.
- finds cooking and making drinks hard to stick with. Actually doesnt really cook.
- cries a lot more than usual and is quicker to anger.
She has had two memory tests with her doctor and both times she has scored 27/30 so the doctor has said she’s fine.
I cant shake my gut and what others are saying to me. But dad says shes fine and makes excuses and so does the doctor.
I dont know what to do. I feel like im going mad and I dont was to upset her.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation?