Hi,I have just joined the forum.I am a middle aged male and my mother has been admitted to a care home with Alzeimers a year ago .She sometimes gets distressed at times by saying that her mother and father(who have been dead for over 30 years)have not been in to see her lately and cant understand why,then breaks into tears.Apart from this being upsetting for both of us,I dont know how to respond to her as she clearly believes they are still alive and no longer care about her.I have asked her carers and they say to just carry on a conversation as if they are still alive as that is what she believes.Is this right?,or should I gently tell her that they are no longer with us and get round it that way?.Seems awful to lie about them being alive in case she reverts back (as she normally does) to a sensible normal conversation.
Any advice greatly received,
Any advice greatly received,