Good Evening,
My mum was diagnosed with Dementia 2years ago, 6 months after my Dad died. She is 78 and lives alone. Since lockdown she hasn’t had anyone to check on her. She has a cleaner through Age UK but she has had to stop coming and I live in Somerset- 180 miles away. Her sister is also elderly and I am an only child.
I have come down to visit her today and am really worried about her. Not only does sloop incredibly thin but she also looks jaundice- I’m going to ring her GP on Monday.
I also arrived to find her freezer completely iced up. She told her the door has broken so she has to wedge it shut - it hadn’t broken, it was too iced up to close.
So my question is what do I do? She can still cook a ready meal and shower and dress herself so she doesn’t need a carer - but she is struggling to cope on her own.
My mum was diagnosed with Dementia 2years ago, 6 months after my Dad died. She is 78 and lives alone. Since lockdown she hasn’t had anyone to check on her. She has a cleaner through Age UK but she has had to stop coming and I live in Somerset- 180 miles away. Her sister is also elderly and I am an only child.
I have come down to visit her today and am really worried about her. Not only does sloop incredibly thin but she also looks jaundice- I’m going to ring her GP on Monday.
I also arrived to find her freezer completely iced up. She told her the door has broken so she has to wedge it shut - it hadn’t broken, it was too iced up to close.
So my question is what do I do? She can still cook a ready meal and shower and dress herself so she doesn’t need a carer - but she is struggling to cope on her own.