Hi, My nan suffers with dementia, she is already at the stage where she is struggling to walk and is sometimes violent. She lives with my grandad still who is not well himself, but he refuses to put her in a home. I think it's partly due to guilt and pride, but also for fear of his own loneliness. However, I am starting to feel like it is unfair on himself, the rest of the family and particulary my nan, that she is not in a home where all of her needs can be met, and where perhaps they may better understand how to deal with this decline in her state of mind. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice to talk to family members about this? I cannot force him to make that decision but it's proving difficult for everyone and it's hard to approach him to change his mind. Anyone who has been through the same thing? Or maybe i'm being too judgmental..