Hi everyone!
My husband of 30 years has mid stage Mixed Dementia.He has never been the best tempered person even before his Dementia diagnosis!We split up three times in the past due to his controlling behaviour (not physically aggressive but held the purse strings to a degree that I had to ask for and account for every penny I spent ,despite him earning a big salary and owning a dozen vintage motorcycles etc!)
Anyway ,fast forward to 12 years ago ,he suffered a massive heart attack and mini strokes,had successful surgery and life limped on .The Dementia diagnosis was made 8 years ago .
We now live back in Derby in Sheltered Housing,have massive Family support from my 7 children (his two children aged 57 and 50 never visit or even enquire about their Dad ,longggg story !)
Sorry,I’m waffling on,what I wanted to ask is has anyone any advice to offer re hubby’s recent stealing from shops please?He thinks it’s hilarious that he’s been stealing bin bags,pens etc from shops when he’s with me or my children and has been sneaking out (whilst I am in shower etc,we live opposite a shopping precinct) and is now subsequently banned from Asda etc ,even if accompanied!
We used to attend most of the
organised activities here at our Complex,but stopped going as he was stealing pens,books etc and several residents have complained to our scheme manager so we stopped going (which means even more isolation)
I know there is no ‘magic wand’ but life is becoming so challenging now I’m not able to socialise
Thank you in advance for any input/advice anyone can offer
My husband of 30 years has mid stage Mixed Dementia.He has never been the best tempered person even before his Dementia diagnosis!We split up three times in the past due to his controlling behaviour (not physically aggressive but held the purse strings to a degree that I had to ask for and account for every penny I spent ,despite him earning a big salary and owning a dozen vintage motorcycles etc!)
Anyway ,fast forward to 12 years ago ,he suffered a massive heart attack and mini strokes,had successful surgery and life limped on .The Dementia diagnosis was made 8 years ago .
We now live back in Derby in Sheltered Housing,have massive Family support from my 7 children (his two children aged 57 and 50 never visit or even enquire about their Dad ,longggg story !)
Sorry,I’m waffling on,what I wanted to ask is has anyone any advice to offer re hubby’s recent stealing from shops please?He thinks it’s hilarious that he’s been stealing bin bags,pens etc from shops when he’s with me or my children and has been sneaking out (whilst I am in shower etc,we live opposite a shopping precinct) and is now subsequently banned from Asda etc ,even if accompanied!
We used to attend most of the
organised activities here at our Complex,but stopped going as he was stealing pens,books etc and several residents have complained to our scheme manager so we stopped going (which means even more isolation)
I know there is no ‘magic wand’ but life is becoming so challenging now I’m not able to socialise
Thank you in advance for any input/advice anyone can offer