Hi! My 78 year old Mum has been suffering with dementia for @7years though was only diagnosed 2021. I live 100 miles away but visit every few weeks. She has been cared for by her lovely partner (not married) of 12 years. I think that she is probably at late middle stage +. Her behaviour has not been easy and she is now having daily meltdowns, is up all night,doesn't know whose house she's in and has very poor memory so repeats herself constantly and has forgotten that loved ones/parents have passed. Her partner is suffering with his mental health and is no longer able to care for her. The mental health team have told him that if he carries on then he may not be around for much longer. He has had suicidal thoughts.He has also had ×3 operations on his heart in recent years. The memory nurse (who is the only person that Mum would tolerate) has been laid off and they've not heard from the memory clinic for months. What do we do? I read about continuing care but see that it is hard to get. Mum lives in his house so if he can't continue does he make her homeless? She cannot deal with medication, cooking, washing, finances etc so is vulnerable. He has Power of attorney. Really would appreciate advice on a plan of action. Thanks if you managed to read to the end.