My Mum in a care home since my dad died last october. Everyone else gets to see the nice charming lady. I see the other side. Just had a call from her in hysterical tears telling me she's got to go home and no one there talks to her. I feel so wicked for leaving her there and feel like I should be able to care for her like she cared for me all those years. She's right, being in a care home is pants and I wish she didn't have to be there but I can't see any other answer.
Every time I see or talk to her my Mum makes me feel so guilty about what I'm doing to her.
Every time I see or talk to her my Mum makes me feel so guilty about what I'm doing to her.