Finally I've cried.
The hospital rang me to ask me to come in and help them get my mum to take her medicine.
Mum's near 90 and a slim 5 footer now. Still dark blond with some streaks of grey. She walks well except for a limp from a broken leg.
A six foot nurse told me that my mum is threatening and some of the staff are scared. Before I got a chance to talk to her (and I did talk her into taking her medicine) she stood at the front desk of the ward and demanded that things be done proper. You see, my mum is periodically reliving WWII when she was a nurse. She thinks I'm being kept somewhere and sometimes I'm let out so I can visit her. (In confidence she warns me to not let people know what I'm thinking or I'll get put in prison like her and be poisoned.)
I got her some nice new clothes and she was wearing them today, She can wander as she likes and is continually on the move. The nursing staff seem to have gone from thinking her as difficult to being quite accommodating and just keeping an eye to make sure she doesn't disappear, which she has on occasion, and so her experience is such that she seems to have dropped her hostility. I think she might be feeling the freedom now.
I was just reading the poems posted earlier and finally I could read them right through and cry.
It's a nice thing to find that I can.
I'm quite in awe of my mum now. What a fighter she is, and what a gentle soul, always caring for someone else.
I think she might now be learning to allow others to care for her.
Here's to you, mum.
The hospital rang me to ask me to come in and help them get my mum to take her medicine.
Mum's near 90 and a slim 5 footer now. Still dark blond with some streaks of grey. She walks well except for a limp from a broken leg.
A six foot nurse told me that my mum is threatening and some of the staff are scared. Before I got a chance to talk to her (and I did talk her into taking her medicine) she stood at the front desk of the ward and demanded that things be done proper. You see, my mum is periodically reliving WWII when she was a nurse. She thinks I'm being kept somewhere and sometimes I'm let out so I can visit her. (In confidence she warns me to not let people know what I'm thinking or I'll get put in prison like her and be poisoned.)
I got her some nice new clothes and she was wearing them today, She can wander as she likes and is continually on the move. The nursing staff seem to have gone from thinking her as difficult to being quite accommodating and just keeping an eye to make sure she doesn't disappear, which she has on occasion, and so her experience is such that she seems to have dropped her hostility. I think she might be feeling the freedom now.
I was just reading the poems posted earlier and finally I could read them right through and cry.
It's a nice thing to find that I can.
I'm quite in awe of my mum now. What a fighter she is, and what a gentle soul, always caring for someone else.
I think she might now be learning to allow others to care for her.
Here's to you, mum.