Mum is deteriorating rapidly week by week, she is forgetting to eat, she is confused over her telephone an tv remote. I am her daughter and sole carer, I am also a carer for my husband who has bone marrow cancer and chronic kidney disease. It is getting more and more difficult every week to cope with the situation. I am mentally and physically exhausted. When should I consider getting help and support for Mum and what would be the first steps. Thank you