My Mum will be 90 this coming week and on Saturday I have organised a family gathering for 15 folk altogether. It is to be held in a friend's bungalow, where Mum goes out for a meal from her care home once a month , so she is familiar with the layout. After visiting her yesterday I am having second thoughts -will she be overwhelmed in the company of all these people, some she has not seen for quite a while. Also she has started saying she is not 90 this birthday she is 88-she said I had disturbed her routine yesterday .
There is a conservatory at the friend's house where she could go and sit quietly if she wishes to do so. Being 90 is a great achievement yet I wonder if the buffet tea is more for her relatives benefit rather than for Mum's. She has Mild cognitive impairment , can be very lucid at times but then can say the most peculiar things and her short term memory is worsening.
Any thoughts gratefully accepted.
Thanks,
Elizabeth
There is a conservatory at the friend's house where she could go and sit quietly if she wishes to do so. Being 90 is a great achievement yet I wonder if the buffet tea is more for her relatives benefit rather than for Mum's. She has Mild cognitive impairment , can be very lucid at times but then can say the most peculiar things and her short term memory is worsening.
Any thoughts gratefully accepted.
Thanks,
Elizabeth