My father-in-law has recently moved to a care home after my husband and brother-in-law had been caring for him at home. He has had problems with his diabetes and a chest infection since he has been in the home. The home have just rung to say that he has been being very aggressive today. We have asked them to check that he does not have a urinary infection. He has been a bit aggressive with my husband before but not like this - he has been shouting at carers and other residents. He is obviously very upset. Does anyone have any ideas about how to cope with this? I know how helpful the forum can be.
Earlier this year I went on the forum regularly when my Mum's alzheimer's was getting very bad and my dad was becoming very frail. Since my Dad died in April, my Mum has been in three different homes. The first was too far from where I live. The second was very poor and every daily visit felt like a battle to get even basic care. She moved into a new home yesterday which seems lovely - a world away from the previous home. I am hoping. It is so hard to find really kind care. Best wishes to all who find their way to this forum. PoochBob
Earlier this year I went on the forum regularly when my Mum's alzheimer's was getting very bad and my dad was becoming very frail. Since my Dad died in April, my Mum has been in three different homes. The first was too far from where I live. The second was very poor and every daily visit felt like a battle to get even basic care. She moved into a new home yesterday which seems lovely - a world away from the previous home. I am hoping. It is so hard to find really kind care. Best wishes to all who find their way to this forum. PoochBob