It seems a little strange for me to be posting in the Researchers area of TP, as a long-standing member of the forum, but it seemed to be the appropriate place in this instance.
Some background: during a long time caring for my late wife Jan, who had mixed dementia - Alzheimer's and Vascular - I decided to try and bring something positive from what was a very chaotic experience. So I did a fair amount of work to help Alzheimer's Society, in the media and on this forum.
As a result of that, and shortly after my Jan had passed away in 2010, I was contacted by someone at the Department of Health, who asked if I would be willing to tell members of an "Awayday" meeting of their Directorate about our experiences.
This I did, and as a result of that I was invited, some time later, to become a member to the Prime Minister's Champion Group on Dementia. We're in the final year of its initial 3 year existence now, and a new subgroup has been formed to look at Dementia and Care in the Home. I am a member of that group and, following a first meeting recently, I'm very excited at the makeup of the group and also the degree of agreement within it.
Most members represent professional organisations that provide care, or represent professional carers, but at least four of us have cared for a loved one who has/had dementia, at home. My best role on the group seems to be to inject practical experience, from the family viewpoint, of dementia care services, at home.
That is why I'm posting here.
I have experience of three people who are/were living with dementia, and what was/is needed, and what they had/have or didn't have.
I'm very aware that there are many members of TP who have their own experiences, good and bad, of managing care for a loved one at home.
However, I'm not just going to restrict my input to this subgroup to what needs to be done for/by service providers. Care at home requires good practice not only be them, but also by family and anyone else involved in any way. I'm well aware that unknowing behaviours by family members can make the situation worse than it need be.
Everyone in the equation needs to be "Dementia Smart".
So, what am I after?
Certainly not a rant, no matter how strongly you may feel. Basically, short examples of good or bad practice by those who come in to help with care. What has worked especially well? What has been totally counter-productive? What is particularly needed to make care at home successful?
I will pull anything posted here, or sent to me by PM, into what I present to the subgroup.
Can you let me know here if you would like to help me in this? I believe it is an extremely important aspect of living with dementia.
Thanks!
P.S. I've checked with the moderators before posting this!
Some background: during a long time caring for my late wife Jan, who had mixed dementia - Alzheimer's and Vascular - I decided to try and bring something positive from what was a very chaotic experience. So I did a fair amount of work to help Alzheimer's Society, in the media and on this forum.
As a result of that, and shortly after my Jan had passed away in 2010, I was contacted by someone at the Department of Health, who asked if I would be willing to tell members of an "Awayday" meeting of their Directorate about our experiences.
This I did, and as a result of that I was invited, some time later, to become a member to the Prime Minister's Champion Group on Dementia. We're in the final year of its initial 3 year existence now, and a new subgroup has been formed to look at Dementia and Care in the Home. I am a member of that group and, following a first meeting recently, I'm very excited at the makeup of the group and also the degree of agreement within it.
Most members represent professional organisations that provide care, or represent professional carers, but at least four of us have cared for a loved one who has/had dementia, at home. My best role on the group seems to be to inject practical experience, from the family viewpoint, of dementia care services, at home.
That is why I'm posting here.
I have experience of three people who are/were living with dementia, and what was/is needed, and what they had/have or didn't have.
I'm very aware that there are many members of TP who have their own experiences, good and bad, of managing care for a loved one at home.
However, I'm not just going to restrict my input to this subgroup to what needs to be done for/by service providers. Care at home requires good practice not only be them, but also by family and anyone else involved in any way. I'm well aware that unknowing behaviours by family members can make the situation worse than it need be.
Everyone in the equation needs to be "Dementia Smart".
So, what am I after?
Certainly not a rant, no matter how strongly you may feel. Basically, short examples of good or bad practice by those who come in to help with care. What has worked especially well? What has been totally counter-productive? What is particularly needed to make care at home successful?
I will pull anything posted here, or sent to me by PM, into what I present to the subgroup.
Can you let me know here if you would like to help me in this? I believe it is an extremely important aspect of living with dementia.
Thanks!
P.S. I've checked with the moderators before posting this!
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