Hi All,
I'm new to this website but assuming this is the correct thing to do.
My Nan has severe dementia which has only been diagnosed in the past few months. We was aware that her memory was going downhill for a while now but she is a very independent person as was successful in hiding this fact from health care services for a long time.
Things gradually got worse at the beginning of the year when she began to be aggressive/ mild violence towards another family member and her memory was rapidly deteriorating, this lead to her being sectioned into a mental health hospital for assessment. She was there for just over two months and after the first initial few days she settled very well, was much calmer and happier in herself although her sense of reality was still very warped.
She has recently been moved to a new care home which myself and two other family members had visited among several others and felt was a very nice home for her. Since being at this home her behaviour has rapidly declined, she has become extremely agitated and aggressive, refusing to bathe, take tablets and is in general very unreasonable and angry. The care home has now put her on Lorazepam 2-3 times a day to try and control this behaviour but it is having no effect and they are hinting at the fact that they may not be able to cope with her as the other residents are very settled and not as severe behavioural issues.
My question is has anyone had this issue of where a family member has not settled or in fact declined at a care home and had to move them to another care home? Would she need to be readmitted to the mental health hospital to be reassessed or can we step in before that and move her to another care facility?
I hope this all makes sense, we are all very close to my nan and at this point she is barely recognising key family members and has started to hallucinate about my Grandad who passed nearly 20 years ago... its is all very unsettling and we want what's best for her.
I'm new to this website but assuming this is the correct thing to do.
My Nan has severe dementia which has only been diagnosed in the past few months. We was aware that her memory was going downhill for a while now but she is a very independent person as was successful in hiding this fact from health care services for a long time.
Things gradually got worse at the beginning of the year when she began to be aggressive/ mild violence towards another family member and her memory was rapidly deteriorating, this lead to her being sectioned into a mental health hospital for assessment. She was there for just over two months and after the first initial few days she settled very well, was much calmer and happier in herself although her sense of reality was still very warped.
She has recently been moved to a new care home which myself and two other family members had visited among several others and felt was a very nice home for her. Since being at this home her behaviour has rapidly declined, she has become extremely agitated and aggressive, refusing to bathe, take tablets and is in general very unreasonable and angry. The care home has now put her on Lorazepam 2-3 times a day to try and control this behaviour but it is having no effect and they are hinting at the fact that they may not be able to cope with her as the other residents are very settled and not as severe behavioural issues.
My question is has anyone had this issue of where a family member has not settled or in fact declined at a care home and had to move them to another care home? Would she need to be readmitted to the mental health hospital to be reassessed or can we step in before that and move her to another care facility?
I hope this all makes sense, we are all very close to my nan and at this point she is barely recognising key family members and has started to hallucinate about my Grandad who passed nearly 20 years ago... its is all very unsettling and we want what's best for her.