So, mum has been in a CH on emergency respite care for three weeks after a long period of fear including hallucinations, constant crying and violence towards my dad. She is 62.
Since she has been in there they have removed her galantamine and left her on memantine in the hope that the decline would make her less fearful.
The home is full of 80 plus year olds that can't talk and mum is talking, fully continent and mobile.
During the three weeks my dad visits every day to a turmoil of abuse based around the fact she knows where she is, why she's there and when will he take her out of this prison. It all makes sense and is so lucid. More so than before she went in there.
The consultant says if we took her out she would be returning within days so we are now investigating 24/7 care. we have found one CH which is lovely and doesn't smell of wee!!! Sorry, her current one reaks!
How can she be able to hold conversations, be mobile, lucid but not be able to make sense or function in the real world?
We think we have given up on home care too soon but her community nurse and consultant disagree and feel she will decline quickly but I expected quicker as her knowing what's going on is torture for all.
Since she has been in there they have removed her galantamine and left her on memantine in the hope that the decline would make her less fearful.
The home is full of 80 plus year olds that can't talk and mum is talking, fully continent and mobile.
During the three weeks my dad visits every day to a turmoil of abuse based around the fact she knows where she is, why she's there and when will he take her out of this prison. It all makes sense and is so lucid. More so than before she went in there.
The consultant says if we took her out she would be returning within days so we are now investigating 24/7 care. we have found one CH which is lovely and doesn't smell of wee!!! Sorry, her current one reaks!
How can she be able to hold conversations, be mobile, lucid but not be able to make sense or function in the real world?
We think we have given up on home care too soon but her community nurse and consultant disagree and feel she will decline quickly but I expected quicker as her knowing what's going on is torture for all.