I have been told that I should consider myself pretty lucky because I am in my eighties and still here (with a bag of marbles)!
My wife has AD. and for the first time in 64 years we are separated, with her in a CH. wanting to come home, but not sure whether we are married or not. I find the separation very difficult, and the loneliness is beyond description.
However, she still recognises me and is usually glad to see me. Reading other posts, I know that, many other members do not have that good fortune. Although I fear that it will probably happen, I dread the day that she will not recognise me, and my heart goes out to those already experiencing that dreadful situation.
I find that being told that I shouldn’t feel sorry for myself, having no shoes, when others have no feet, is puzzling. I would feel very sorry for any poor chap with no feet, but I can’t see that that makes being shoeless on a rocky road, anything to be happy about.
So, should I consider myself lucky? When I am with my wife, definitely yes! And I would then agree with those who say I should count my blessings. But at three in the morning, sleepless, alone in an empty flat, I would feel like shooting whoever tells me how lucky I am!
My wife has AD. and for the first time in 64 years we are separated, with her in a CH. wanting to come home, but not sure whether we are married or not. I find the separation very difficult, and the loneliness is beyond description.
However, she still recognises me and is usually glad to see me. Reading other posts, I know that, many other members do not have that good fortune. Although I fear that it will probably happen, I dread the day that she will not recognise me, and my heart goes out to those already experiencing that dreadful situation.
I find that being told that I shouldn’t feel sorry for myself, having no shoes, when others have no feet, is puzzling. I would feel very sorry for any poor chap with no feet, but I can’t see that that makes being shoeless on a rocky road, anything to be happy about.
So, should I consider myself lucky? When I am with my wife, definitely yes! And I would then agree with those who say I should count my blessings. But at three in the morning, sleepless, alone in an empty flat, I would feel like shooting whoever tells me how lucky I am!