Don't post here so often anymore but just felt the need tonight as have been going through a very rough time visiting dad whose been in a CH for about 18months. His dementia is v advanced, mobility failing, double incontinent and is fully dependent on carers. He's suffered badly with his dementia and never been very easy to look after as quite aggressive in the past but the problem at present is his frequent shouting. He's often angry when we visit, and frequently shouts out 'Shut Up' 'You Go' or just shrill shrieks for no apparent reason. He barely recognises the family anymore but I could cope with that if only he was more peaceful. Seeing him distressed all the time is really starting to get me down as he often has to be segregated from the other residents due to making such a noise. He's the only resident so vocal in the home and we do worry he's causing a lot of disharmony. If he's not shouting he's just sleeping - it's so sad. His meds have been tweaked recently in the hope this will make some difference but no change as yet and checked for UTI but nothing. Not really looking for advice but just felt a need to get it all out, it can really get on top of you at times & wish we could have the occasional good visit. Anyhow thanks for reading.
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