This has been a wonderful thread to read. I have learnt a lot from all the responses. I have not lost my partner as yet but suddenly came to the realisation yesterday that although he is no longer the same person superficially I am grateful that I still have him around in whatever capacity. For a while I did have some of those thoughts of "just hurry up and go so I can get on with my life". Now I realise that my life will be much the poorer without him in it. Some of my friends and family do seem to think that I should be able to just move on but it is hard to imagine a day where I dont think about him.
I can relate to the answering machine story. I feel the same way when I hear his voice on a video. I even keep his old email address going so I can re-read his old sent emails and some times it is a shock to remember what an articulate, caring, intelligent man he was.
Thank you all
I can relate to the answering machine story. I feel the same way when I hear his voice on a video. I even keep his old email address going so I can re-read his old sent emails and some times it is a shock to remember what an articulate, caring, intelligent man he was.
Thank you all