Hi all - new to this so please bear with me (already lost my original post so obviously not a clue what I'm doing!).
I'll try to keep this as short as possible! I gave up work 3 years ago to care for my mum as she has osteoperosis and was having bad falls when she was left on her own. In the first year of caring for her I noticed her memory gradually worsening and went to my GP who asked her a few questions then referred her to the memory clinic. A nurse came out to see her and asked her some more questions, such as how old she was, what day it was, the year (mum said 1967) and who was Prime Minister. Mum didn't give one correct answer so she was referred for a brain scan which she had on 5 April 2011. To date I have not had the results of this scan - I have hounded my GP for them and he said he would chase them but stilll nothing - I was eventually told that because the memory clinic had requested the scan, the results would have gone to them. I rang the nurse in question 3 times and she said she'd get back to me - I'm still waiting!
I'm now at the end of my tether because in the 2 years since the scan my mum's memory has deteriorated even more - so much so that I had to take her to the emergency doctor at the weekend because she was so confused she couldn't string 2 words together to tell me what she wanted. I thought she was having a stroke but within a minute she was back to her normal semi-confused self. The doc said it could have been due to a temporary blockage of signals from her brain.
Mum has been getting recurring urinary tract infections which they say can make her confused - she's been on antibiotics for 3 months now and her last 2 urine tests were clear and they tested her urine at the weekend which was also clear so how can this be the reason for her increasing confusion? I just feel as if I'm banging my head against a brick wall all the time with them - the only real support I've had is from social services who have done regular assessments and seen for themselves the deterioration in my mum's health. They hadn't been informed of the scan results either but were told by the memory clinic that they'd closed mum's case, which they couldn't even be bothered to tell me.
I can't leave my mum on her own at all - I'm her sole carer, with her 24/7, and have to do everything for her - she even struggles to remember how to use her knife and fork. I'm so frustrated because I know there is medication that can slow down the memory loss and she could have been on this since the scan in 2011.
Any advice on where I go from here? I took her to another GP in our practice 2 weeks ago as her doctor has now left and he's sent her for a blood test which she's having tomorrow (she also has a history of anemia, but they haven't been monitoring her blood count - last test was in 2011 when she was referred for the scan!). Maybe the answer is to switch doctors??!
(sorry - took a bit longer to explain than promised!)
I'll try to keep this as short as possible! I gave up work 3 years ago to care for my mum as she has osteoperosis and was having bad falls when she was left on her own. In the first year of caring for her I noticed her memory gradually worsening and went to my GP who asked her a few questions then referred her to the memory clinic. A nurse came out to see her and asked her some more questions, such as how old she was, what day it was, the year (mum said 1967) and who was Prime Minister. Mum didn't give one correct answer so she was referred for a brain scan which she had on 5 April 2011. To date I have not had the results of this scan - I have hounded my GP for them and he said he would chase them but stilll nothing - I was eventually told that because the memory clinic had requested the scan, the results would have gone to them. I rang the nurse in question 3 times and she said she'd get back to me - I'm still waiting!
I'm now at the end of my tether because in the 2 years since the scan my mum's memory has deteriorated even more - so much so that I had to take her to the emergency doctor at the weekend because she was so confused she couldn't string 2 words together to tell me what she wanted. I thought she was having a stroke but within a minute she was back to her normal semi-confused self. The doc said it could have been due to a temporary blockage of signals from her brain.
Mum has been getting recurring urinary tract infections which they say can make her confused - she's been on antibiotics for 3 months now and her last 2 urine tests were clear and they tested her urine at the weekend which was also clear so how can this be the reason for her increasing confusion? I just feel as if I'm banging my head against a brick wall all the time with them - the only real support I've had is from social services who have done regular assessments and seen for themselves the deterioration in my mum's health. They hadn't been informed of the scan results either but were told by the memory clinic that they'd closed mum's case, which they couldn't even be bothered to tell me.
I can't leave my mum on her own at all - I'm her sole carer, with her 24/7, and have to do everything for her - she even struggles to remember how to use her knife and fork. I'm so frustrated because I know there is medication that can slow down the memory loss and she could have been on this since the scan in 2011.
Any advice on where I go from here? I took her to another GP in our practice 2 weeks ago as her doctor has now left and he's sent her for a blood test which she's having tomorrow (she also has a history of anemia, but they haven't been monitoring her blood count - last test was in 2011 when she was referred for the scan!). Maybe the answer is to switch doctors??!
(sorry - took a bit longer to explain than promised!)