When visiting my Mum last week I was concerned about a carers approach but I didn't feel comfortable about saying anything as I knew she didn't mean any harm, she was just having a little bit of fun with Mum. Let me explain.
Mum and I were sitting at the dining table so her focus was on me and another lady. One of the carers came and sat to one side of her out of Mums line of sight. The carer was smiling and in a fun way 'waited' for Mum to notice her. Of course Mum eventually did see her but as she turned round she jumped with fright. I felt upset inside as this was needless.
I've always believed that we're supposed to always approach a person with AD from the front so that they can see you. So surely, a supposed trained carer ought to know this? I said nothing because I was afraid it might seem petty but still and all, I've been troubled ever since at not opening my mouth and explaining the 'mistake' or simply defending my Mum who can't do it for herself.
The moment has passed for me now and it's too late to have my say to the carer but I just wondered, what would you do in the same or similar situation?
Mum and I were sitting at the dining table so her focus was on me and another lady. One of the carers came and sat to one side of her out of Mums line of sight. The carer was smiling and in a fun way 'waited' for Mum to notice her. Of course Mum eventually did see her but as she turned round she jumped with fright. I felt upset inside as this was needless.
I've always believed that we're supposed to always approach a person with AD from the front so that they can see you. So surely, a supposed trained carer ought to know this? I said nothing because I was afraid it might seem petty but still and all, I've been troubled ever since at not opening my mouth and explaining the 'mistake' or simply defending my Mum who can't do it for herself.
The moment has passed for me now and it's too late to have my say to the carer but I just wondered, what would you do in the same or similar situation?