Hi,
This is my first time here so I'll apologise in advance if I offend through ignorance!
Earlier this year my brother, (I'll just refer to him as 'D') aged 63, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's. After the initial shock we are trying to come to terms with this and have felt quite isolated.
As a family, we want to support him and especially his wife and two sons but often it's hard to know how best to help without feeling we're interfering. In the last few months there has been a decline in D's memory retention and we realised txts to my sister-in-law were not getting though to her as D had deleted them from her phone!
My sister and I, and our daughters, are planning a 'girls night' to take sis-in-law out for a meal - ostensibly to give her a break, but also to try to discuss strategies for communication. Also, to try and establish physical ways in which we can help.
She says there's not much we can do but we don't just want to sit on the sidelines, so I guess what I'm really asking with this post is aimed at anyone here who's in her situation (or been through it) - what would (or would have) helped YOU in those early days after diagnosis?
We know we're in it for the long haul and are aware that the future will require us to work together as a team to support both D, his wife and his sons, but any tips or advice would be gratefully received - we know there will be issues we haven't even considered yet!
Many thanks, in advance, for any ideas you may have!
Librarymaid
This is my first time here so I'll apologise in advance if I offend through ignorance!
Earlier this year my brother, (I'll just refer to him as 'D') aged 63, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's. After the initial shock we are trying to come to terms with this and have felt quite isolated.
As a family, we want to support him and especially his wife and two sons but often it's hard to know how best to help without feeling we're interfering. In the last few months there has been a decline in D's memory retention and we realised txts to my sister-in-law were not getting though to her as D had deleted them from her phone!
My sister and I, and our daughters, are planning a 'girls night' to take sis-in-law out for a meal - ostensibly to give her a break, but also to try to discuss strategies for communication. Also, to try and establish physical ways in which we can help.
She says there's not much we can do but we don't just want to sit on the sidelines, so I guess what I'm really asking with this post is aimed at anyone here who's in her situation (or been through it) - what would (or would have) helped YOU in those early days after diagnosis?
We know we're in it for the long haul and are aware that the future will require us to work together as a team to support both D, his wife and his sons, but any tips or advice would be gratefully received - we know there will be issues we haven't even considered yet!
Many thanks, in advance, for any ideas you may have!
Librarymaid