Mum in a terribly upset state today and no wonder.
1 Nurse called to dress her legs and mum couldn't remember that her keys were in her bag so can't open the door
2 mum in a flap gets more confused and tries to pass phone thru letterbox
3 nurse tries to ring me but I'm unavailable so speaks to my daughter.
4 nurse in a flap. Doesn't listen properly to daughter
5 I call mum to make sure she has gone to daycare. Unaware of what has happened. Nurse in house. Nurse comes to phone
6 nurse quite aggressive. Tell her that lockbox is going to be fitted outside by SMS. Nurse aggressively asks when. I tell her I have no control over that.
7 ring mum half hour later. Phone engaged. Partner goes to see if it's off hook.
8 partner rings me. Right rumpus going on in front of mum. Nurse had been to neighbours looking for a key !!!!!!!!! She had left by this point
9 there was never a key at neighbours!!!!! That beggared belief
10 two neighbours were in there shouting at partner saying mum shouldn't be there on her own and I should be doing more. I was having palpitations just from what I could hear down phone
11 partner gets them out of house. Mum really upset and confused. Brings her to my house
12 phone rings. Nurse rings again. She'd had phone call to say mum was wandering again. Was shocked when I said she was with me
13 she started saying mum should be somewhere safe .ie nursing home. I said she was safe until she had wound her up
14 she astounded me by saying she was going to call police to get them to break door down. I told her that mum was in no danger there wasn't a fire and when she asked me what she should have done
15 I told her she should have left her. She would have calmed down and found her keys.
I am so angry. I feel she inflamed the situation. Neighbours have helped mum back to her house. I thought that was being neighbourly. It just gave some of them a platform to have a vent.
Doctor and sw are aware mum lives alone and are happy. Mum is happy. I often ask her if she wants to go into a home and she says she definitely does not.
I am just heartily sick of this ' put them in a home brigade' who think they know better than the family and the individual.
1 Nurse called to dress her legs and mum couldn't remember that her keys were in her bag so can't open the door
2 mum in a flap gets more confused and tries to pass phone thru letterbox
3 nurse tries to ring me but I'm unavailable so speaks to my daughter.
4 nurse in a flap. Doesn't listen properly to daughter
5 I call mum to make sure she has gone to daycare. Unaware of what has happened. Nurse in house. Nurse comes to phone
6 nurse quite aggressive. Tell her that lockbox is going to be fitted outside by SMS. Nurse aggressively asks when. I tell her I have no control over that.
7 ring mum half hour later. Phone engaged. Partner goes to see if it's off hook.
8 partner rings me. Right rumpus going on in front of mum. Nurse had been to neighbours looking for a key !!!!!!!!! She had left by this point
9 there was never a key at neighbours!!!!! That beggared belief
10 two neighbours were in there shouting at partner saying mum shouldn't be there on her own and I should be doing more. I was having palpitations just from what I could hear down phone
11 partner gets them out of house. Mum really upset and confused. Brings her to my house
12 phone rings. Nurse rings again. She'd had phone call to say mum was wandering again. Was shocked when I said she was with me
13 she started saying mum should be somewhere safe .ie nursing home. I said she was safe until she had wound her up
14 she astounded me by saying she was going to call police to get them to break door down. I told her that mum was in no danger there wasn't a fire and when she asked me what she should have done
15 I told her she should have left her. She would have calmed down and found her keys.
I am so angry. I feel she inflamed the situation. Neighbours have helped mum back to her house. I thought that was being neighbourly. It just gave some of them a platform to have a vent.
Doctor and sw are aware mum lives alone and are happy. Mum is happy. I often ask her if she wants to go into a home and she says she definitely does not.
I am just heartily sick of this ' put them in a home brigade' who think they know better than the family and the individual.