I really have not had a good week, trying to sort out my aunts affairs.
I got summoned to a meeting with the SW and my aunts friend B. I have been concerned about the overbearing and bullying way B treats my aunt. The carers say B is making my aunt cry.
At the meeting, B had lots to say. In the middle of the meeting, in came the carer, who said clearly to B's face (and the SW), all the things which have been worrying me.
The upshot was that the agency should do the shopping (not B), and I should have control of my aunt's money so I can get extra care for her. I find B is 'minding' £900 of my aunts which she 'found' in her house, although as far as I know there is no fraud here.
My aunt has a private cleaner, who I am not very keen on, but have left in place, a my aunt likes her, the cleaner has only been with her since last summer. I explained to the cleaner what happened in the meeting.
This morning, the cleaner rings, tells me at length what a horrible person I am, and resigns, but says she will still see my aunt as a friend.
Trying to piece together what is happening, seems the cleaner went in and picked a row with carer in front of my aunt about who does the shopping. Both the cleaner and B have been nagging the carers about what they do, seems they expect carers to cook a meal from scratch with fresh veg in 30 minutes.
So here I am feeling really stressed and ill, looks like anything I do is wrong, even when I try to sort things. Anyone got any thoughts?
G
I got summoned to a meeting with the SW and my aunts friend B. I have been concerned about the overbearing and bullying way B treats my aunt. The carers say B is making my aunt cry.
At the meeting, B had lots to say. In the middle of the meeting, in came the carer, who said clearly to B's face (and the SW), all the things which have been worrying me.
The upshot was that the agency should do the shopping (not B), and I should have control of my aunt's money so I can get extra care for her. I find B is 'minding' £900 of my aunts which she 'found' in her house, although as far as I know there is no fraud here.
My aunt has a private cleaner, who I am not very keen on, but have left in place, a my aunt likes her, the cleaner has only been with her since last summer. I explained to the cleaner what happened in the meeting.
This morning, the cleaner rings, tells me at length what a horrible person I am, and resigns, but says she will still see my aunt as a friend.
Trying to piece together what is happening, seems the cleaner went in and picked a row with carer in front of my aunt about who does the shopping. Both the cleaner and B have been nagging the carers about what they do, seems they expect carers to cook a meal from scratch with fresh veg in 30 minutes.
So here I am feeling really stressed and ill, looks like anything I do is wrong, even when I try to sort things. Anyone got any thoughts?
G