Hi all - Mum has been in a CH for almost 6 weeks now and am pleased to say that this week she seems like she is finally settling in - we still get the question when I am I going home but not as often and when she does ask we just say or do something to distract her and that seems to be working.
She talks to the staff and other residents and they love her bubbly personality.
We have a family wedding in March - my niece (mums granddaughter) is getting married - it would make my nieces day if her nan could attend the wedding but as a family we are struggling to decide on whether to take mum out for the day to attend - we don't want to upset her routine now she is finally settling but on the other hand she is our mum and want her to attend family events. For the past year or so while she was still living with me she was unable to cope with family gatherings due to the noise levels (mum has 7 children and 20+ grandchildren) just don't know what to do for the best and wondered if any of you have experienced this and can advise on whether we should take her to wedding - she has not had a day out of the home yet and we also worry it may be upsetting for her when we have to take her back - any advice would be appretiated. Thanks
She talks to the staff and other residents and they love her bubbly personality.
We have a family wedding in March - my niece (mums granddaughter) is getting married - it would make my nieces day if her nan could attend the wedding but as a family we are struggling to decide on whether to take mum out for the day to attend - we don't want to upset her routine now she is finally settling but on the other hand she is our mum and want her to attend family events. For the past year or so while she was still living with me she was unable to cope with family gatherings due to the noise levels (mum has 7 children and 20+ grandchildren) just don't know what to do for the best and wondered if any of you have experienced this and can advise on whether we should take her to wedding - she has not had a day out of the home yet and we also worry it may be upsetting for her when we have to take her back - any advice would be appretiated. Thanks