i see the consaltant every day and he is very understanding but there is little he can do. todaay he has prescribed diazapam 3 times aday and a laxative to help him go. i showered dave today shaved and washed hair and then used the standing hoist myself to get him to his chair. i use hoists where i work and new more about it than the nurse this morning. im glad i did because dave seemed more relaxed me doing it, its a standing hoist and easy to use, the phisio came to see if she could help and we both tried to assist dave to stand and he did but then shoock violently when trying to move to walk, we sat him down. we both agreed that even if he walked a couple of steps it was too risky as he would just fall. im so glad about the continuing care decision but it still has to be agreed by the pct and the lady whom did the assessment will keep chasing it up and i only hope they will agree to the nursing home we need dave to go too. the lady said it will be in his favour because of his age 57 and she will do all she can to help, thank you for support i need it so much now, i dont seem to no anyone on here anymore and caqnt bring myself to look at the posts its heartbreaking love to my friends xxx