Hi Guys
Dad often struggles to talk and find the right words, some days are worse than others. When he's looking for the right words is it best to help him - some times I can fill in the missing peice - or should I let him get there by himself? He gets quite flustered, upset and frustrated when he cant finish his sentences or make himself understood but I want to try to do the best/right thing not just the easy one.
When I'm visiting if he's having a 'bad' day he'll ask us to watch DvD's with him - it removes the need for any conversation unless he starts it and he tends to get company and conversation at a level he's happy with. I know he has a lot of coping strategies for 'bad' days and I dont want to make him uncomfortable but I don't know if letting him hide this way keeps his brain active as well as keeping him in his comfort zone.
I'm kind of feeling my way through this at the moment, early steps in the journey.
All suggestions appreciated
yours sincerely
Syl
Dad often struggles to talk and find the right words, some days are worse than others. When he's looking for the right words is it best to help him - some times I can fill in the missing peice - or should I let him get there by himself? He gets quite flustered, upset and frustrated when he cant finish his sentences or make himself understood but I want to try to do the best/right thing not just the easy one.
When I'm visiting if he's having a 'bad' day he'll ask us to watch DvD's with him - it removes the need for any conversation unless he starts it and he tends to get company and conversation at a level he's happy with. I know he has a lot of coping strategies for 'bad' days and I dont want to make him uncomfortable but I don't know if letting him hide this way keeps his brain active as well as keeping him in his comfort zone.
I'm kind of feeling my way through this at the moment, early steps in the journey.
All suggestions appreciated
yours sincerely
Syl