Hi everyone,
I am fairly new to being a carer and struggling to understand AD and come to terms with my feelings towards Mum and her condition. I am an only child, work full time, have recently been diagnosed with an under-active thyroid (so already feel tired all the time), moved Mum, Dad and us (husband and youngest daughter) into a house together just before Christmas. Sadly Dad passed away on 30th January after a long battle with COPD, and Mum has since taken a turn for the worst, her condition is as yet undiagnosed (but only because it is taking so long to get all the necessary tests done, everyone previously thought it was severe depression).
I don't know where to turn to for advice, are there courses that help you manage their needs and your own feelings? I don't even know how bad Mum is I do know she suffers from paranoia, mood swings, boredom, loves moving things around and thinks that all the clothes in the house are hers but that the food belongs to a specific person, laughs at the strangest things with a laugh that resembles a cackling witch (not her old laugh), likes hugging and kissing people that she has just met amongst many other things.
Any advice gratefully received, I know this is a long journey we will be taking together, but I want to try and avoid to many "flat tyres" along the way, and would occasionally would like to slip into auto-pilot
I am fairly new to being a carer and struggling to understand AD and come to terms with my feelings towards Mum and her condition. I am an only child, work full time, have recently been diagnosed with an under-active thyroid (so already feel tired all the time), moved Mum, Dad and us (husband and youngest daughter) into a house together just before Christmas. Sadly Dad passed away on 30th January after a long battle with COPD, and Mum has since taken a turn for the worst, her condition is as yet undiagnosed (but only because it is taking so long to get all the necessary tests done, everyone previously thought it was severe depression).
I don't know where to turn to for advice, are there courses that help you manage their needs and your own feelings? I don't even know how bad Mum is I do know she suffers from paranoia, mood swings, boredom, loves moving things around and thinks that all the clothes in the house are hers but that the food belongs to a specific person, laughs at the strangest things with a laugh that resembles a cackling witch (not her old laugh), likes hugging and kissing people that she has just met amongst many other things.
Any advice gratefully received, I know this is a long journey we will be taking together, but I want to try and avoid to many "flat tyres" along the way, and would occasionally would like to slip into auto-pilot