Hi,
This is my first post in this forum but I know from the few days I've been a member that you are all very patient and full of useful comments, so here goes with some background and the problem.
I am 50 years old and have had memory problems for some time now. I cannot remember my daughter's wedding in 2000, my own wedding in 1989; moving house in 1994 and the list goes on. I would have bet money that my mother did not attend my daughter's wedding - until my wife showed me a photo of all four of us standing together at the ceremony. Equally, I cannot remember someone I apparently met last December, although some fragments of the conversation we had are quite clear! If I go the shops I invariably need to phone home to see what I'm supposed to be buying, unless I take a list!
I had a brain scan last year because I was also suffering headaches but this was fine; the headaches were, after all, related to eye problems.
I had a visit to a memory clinic about 18 months ago and since it consisted largely of questions like "Who is the Prime Minister" it seemed a waste of time. The only nugget of information hidden away in the follow-up letter was that my earlier prolonged use of Venlafaxine (an anti-depressant) "might contribute to cognitive impairment."
I have also been taking statins for some time which might be a potential cause of memory loss but am currently on a three month "statins holiday" to see if my memory improves.
Having said all the above, my question is "Do those memories I have apparently lost come back if my memory "mechanism" is fixed?
Can anyone recommend ways of improving memory that actually work?
Any advice/suggestions most welcome, and thanks for listening.
PS My mother has recently been diagnosed with vascular dementia - should I be worried that my problems are the start of something similar?
This is my first post in this forum but I know from the few days I've been a member that you are all very patient and full of useful comments, so here goes with some background and the problem.
I am 50 years old and have had memory problems for some time now. I cannot remember my daughter's wedding in 2000, my own wedding in 1989; moving house in 1994 and the list goes on. I would have bet money that my mother did not attend my daughter's wedding - until my wife showed me a photo of all four of us standing together at the ceremony. Equally, I cannot remember someone I apparently met last December, although some fragments of the conversation we had are quite clear! If I go the shops I invariably need to phone home to see what I'm supposed to be buying, unless I take a list!
I had a brain scan last year because I was also suffering headaches but this was fine; the headaches were, after all, related to eye problems.
I had a visit to a memory clinic about 18 months ago and since it consisted largely of questions like "Who is the Prime Minister" it seemed a waste of time. The only nugget of information hidden away in the follow-up letter was that my earlier prolonged use of Venlafaxine (an anti-depressant) "might contribute to cognitive impairment."
I have also been taking statins for some time which might be a potential cause of memory loss but am currently on a three month "statins holiday" to see if my memory improves.
Having said all the above, my question is "Do those memories I have apparently lost come back if my memory "mechanism" is fixed?
Can anyone recommend ways of improving memory that actually work?
Any advice/suggestions most welcome, and thanks for listening.
PS My mother has recently been diagnosed with vascular dementia - should I be worried that my problems are the start of something similar?