Until about 18 months ago my husband was capable of dealing with some of his own financial affairs and I encouraged this as it helped him to focus and feel in control of his life. However, he then had yet another stroke which robbed him of this ability and now he is in a CH and I have a POA and am trying to pick up the pieces.....
My problem is that DLA say that he has been overpaid and they want to reclaim about £5k from him. I had a very distressing phone conversation with one of the staff at DLA who kept saying "You should have read the back page of our letter...." but I kept pointing out to him that at that time my husband was dealing with such matters and all correspondence was addressed to him, and I didn't have a POA etc.
I am now in a position were I have to appeal against the decision that my husband should repay this money, but I don't know how I appeal on his behalf because I just don't know what is in his mind or what are reasonable grounds of appeal. I contacted CAB who were useless and the telephone interview I had was just a waste of time.
All my husband's savings have gone towards paying for his place in the care home; all his pension is taken; they will not allow me any allowance for my 19 yr old daughter who is at uni; the house has gone, I am now retired, and am in rented accommodation.
In effect my life has fallen apart and now they want about £5k which my husband does not have. What on earth am I going to do?
My problem is that DLA say that he has been overpaid and they want to reclaim about £5k from him. I had a very distressing phone conversation with one of the staff at DLA who kept saying "You should have read the back page of our letter...." but I kept pointing out to him that at that time my husband was dealing with such matters and all correspondence was addressed to him, and I didn't have a POA etc.
I am now in a position were I have to appeal against the decision that my husband should repay this money, but I don't know how I appeal on his behalf because I just don't know what is in his mind or what are reasonable grounds of appeal. I contacted CAB who were useless and the telephone interview I had was just a waste of time.
All my husband's savings have gone towards paying for his place in the care home; all his pension is taken; they will not allow me any allowance for my 19 yr old daughter who is at uni; the house has gone, I am now retired, and am in rented accommodation.
In effect my life has fallen apart and now they want about £5k which my husband does not have. What on earth am I going to do?