At some time researching various things online I saw on one website a long list of points to look out for/check and questions to ask when visiting care homes. It was late, I was boggle-minded tired from reading so much, intended returning to print it out but now I cannot find this website.
I have an appointment to visit one care home this Tuesday 8 March, and hoping to arrange to visit another Thursday 10 March.
If anyone knows of such a website and could direct me to it I would be extremely grateful.
Time is running out I need to know what I'm doing. I should have printed it at the time..... "never put off until tomorrow what you can do today".
Panic now setting in
I did think I had printed it out but obviously I did not.
Also any advice anyone can offer me would be appreciated.
Each of the two care homes is split into 4 units, one for dementia patients. Each one has its own dining room and sitting room. Husband also has personal care and nursing needs.
My priority is staff who are experienced in dementia. But I am concerned about a dementia unit being "segregated", if you know what I mean?
The hospital he is presently in is for physically and mentally frail elderly people. Some have dementia, some do not. He is a quiet man by nature, more withdrawn now with dementia. But in the sitting room he seems to enjoy listening to the chat, and there are small signs of some interaction with other patients, and staff.
He thinks he is perfectly normal, and still has the ability to recognize what he calls someone being "daft"....
In a dementia unit he may not get this more stimulating environment, from which I do feel he has benefitted, be it only in small ways.
Hope you understand what I mean. Of course his dementia will progress (and has taken a steep downward turn over the six weeks he was in acute hospitals). But he is still "with it" in various respects. Short-term memory almost nil. Lives "in the moment".
Thanks for listenng.
Anxious Loopiloo (Loo)