Hi Everyone, Haven't been around for a while. Just wanted to update those of you who have been a massive support to me.
My wonderful Dad passed away last Sunday after being out of hospital for just over four weeks. He went peacefully but I wasn't with him. After all the hours I spent with him including three full nights last week. I guess he wanted to do it by himself. He was talking to me in the morning and asked the staff to call me so that is a lovely memory.
Dad's going is made even worse for Dean and I as his Grandma died three weeks before. As some of you may remember she had moved in with us after surgery in march. So Dad came out of hospital on the Monday and She went back in the next day. She was 84 but we werent expecting to loose her. Infact we had told her that Dad was dying. When the phone rang early on sunday the 16th July I was expecting it to be Dad. But it was the hospital. We got to her in time but she passed away 4 hours later. 4 weeks today that happened.
What a month, although she was Deans grandma she brought him up so we have lost the two most important people in our lives in three weeks.
Sometimes I just wonder if someone is having a laugh at our expense!
Dad going is just so hard, I thought i was prepared, well as prepared as you can be. I couls see how tired and week he was, but it doesn't make it any easier when you love so deeply.
Well I think that is enough for now, don't want to go on!
I would like to say a big thank you to everyone that has answered my posts in the past and helped me get through some hard times.
Not quite sure what i will do with my time now they have both gone!
Sally xx
My wonderful Dad passed away last Sunday after being out of hospital for just over four weeks. He went peacefully but I wasn't with him. After all the hours I spent with him including three full nights last week. I guess he wanted to do it by himself. He was talking to me in the morning and asked the staff to call me so that is a lovely memory.
Dad's going is made even worse for Dean and I as his Grandma died three weeks before. As some of you may remember she had moved in with us after surgery in march. So Dad came out of hospital on the Monday and She went back in the next day. She was 84 but we werent expecting to loose her. Infact we had told her that Dad was dying. When the phone rang early on sunday the 16th July I was expecting it to be Dad. But it was the hospital. We got to her in time but she passed away 4 hours later. 4 weeks today that happened.
What a month, although she was Deans grandma she brought him up so we have lost the two most important people in our lives in three weeks.
Sometimes I just wonder if someone is having a laugh at our expense!
Dad going is just so hard, I thought i was prepared, well as prepared as you can be. I couls see how tired and week he was, but it doesn't make it any easier when you love so deeply.
Well I think that is enough for now, don't want to go on!
I would like to say a big thank you to everyone that has answered my posts in the past and helped me get through some hard times.
Not quite sure what i will do with my time now they have both gone!
Sally xx