I've been pleased that, although mum has vascular dementia and can be quite confused at times, she has had no problem with incontinence so far.
We've recently had more carers in so I've been a little less 'hands on' and yesterday she had a visit to my sister's for the first time in ages. It seems that when they dropped her back home last night they discovered she had wet the bed and my sister is sure it's not the first time.
I do check mum's bed regularly, especially that it's smooth, because I know she's always been fussy about her bed and I don't want her getting bed sores. Of course, I change it regularly, too.
I know she had a little accident about a month ago and I sorted it, but I'm getting worried now. Just when we have care in place it looks like more help is going to be needed.
I guess what I need to know is, how likely is this to deteriorate? Is there anything we can do to help eg. would asking the carers to take her to the toilet regularly during the day help? (assuming she will do as they ask).
If this is going to be the norm very soon, what can I do to keep her in her own home as long as possible? How long should pads be worn (assuming she will wear them-she takes her knickers off already. ), how many visits a day is it likely to take to keep her dry?
How long is a piece of string, eh?
Sorry to be so naive, but this seems to be the start of a whole new phase.
We've recently had more carers in so I've been a little less 'hands on' and yesterday she had a visit to my sister's for the first time in ages. It seems that when they dropped her back home last night they discovered she had wet the bed and my sister is sure it's not the first time.
I do check mum's bed regularly, especially that it's smooth, because I know she's always been fussy about her bed and I don't want her getting bed sores. Of course, I change it regularly, too.
I know she had a little accident about a month ago and I sorted it, but I'm getting worried now. Just when we have care in place it looks like more help is going to be needed.
I guess what I need to know is, how likely is this to deteriorate? Is there anything we can do to help eg. would asking the carers to take her to the toilet regularly during the day help? (assuming she will do as they ask).
If this is going to be the norm very soon, what can I do to keep her in her own home as long as possible? How long should pads be worn (assuming she will wear them-she takes her knickers off already. ), how many visits a day is it likely to take to keep her dry?
How long is a piece of string, eh?
Sorry to be so naive, but this seems to be the start of a whole new phase.