I wondered if any of you who have family in a care home have experienced this?
As my dad deteriorates I'm finding it more and more difficult to visit. Conversation is almost impossible. He hardly ever has his hearing aids in, and he seems to have withdrawn more into himself.
If I show him something, like a magazine, he just looks at it as if he doesn't know what it is.
He sometimes gets up and wanders off, and if he does talk it just doesn't really make much sense anymore. I can't seem to get his attention or get him to engage and he's happy to sit and stare or nod off. He's not too sure who I am anymore on bad days and doesn't even recognise my face as one he knows. When I tell him about things happening or about his grandchildren, I get little real response.
I've visited twice a week now since January but I'm struggling to stay for more than half an hour these days.
Is this normal to find it so hard when there's been a deterioration like this?
Take care
Feezee
As my dad deteriorates I'm finding it more and more difficult to visit. Conversation is almost impossible. He hardly ever has his hearing aids in, and he seems to have withdrawn more into himself.
If I show him something, like a magazine, he just looks at it as if he doesn't know what it is.
He sometimes gets up and wanders off, and if he does talk it just doesn't really make much sense anymore. I can't seem to get his attention or get him to engage and he's happy to sit and stare or nod off. He's not too sure who I am anymore on bad days and doesn't even recognise my face as one he knows. When I tell him about things happening or about his grandchildren, I get little real response.
I've visited twice a week now since January but I'm struggling to stay for more than half an hour these days.
Is this normal to find it so hard when there's been a deterioration like this?
Take care
Feezee